There is no better way to celebrate my recent membership approval than by attending a Veterans Day program. Today, I headed to the Middletown Veterans Memorial, and it was a spectacular day for the community to gather. The weather held out, the crowd was respectful, and we even had a surprise visit from a helicopter—a first for this local event!

As I sat with my fellow Masons in the crowd, I had a different perspective than in years past. Just three days ago, I was officially approved as a member of the Colonel James Wood II Chapter, and today I got to see my fellow compatriots in the SAR Color Guard participating in the ceremony. Seeing the colonial uniforms and the flags flying in the crisp November air made my genealogical journey feel very “real.”

After the event, I had the pleasure of catching up with Marc, a chapter member who has been incredibly welcoming. He sent me a follow-up email that really helped demystify the “what happens next” part of joining. We talked about the basics of the monthly meetings—apparently, I just need to bring a healthy appetite for a $20 breakfast and an interest in history!

We also started discussing one of the most exciting parts of being an active member: Colonial Attire. Marc explained the difference between the formal “Regimentals” (the iconic soldier uniforms) and the more rugged “Militia” or “Hunting Frock” style. While the Regimentals look sharp, the Militia style is a more accessible way to start. I’m looking forward to grabbing lunch with him soon to look at some websites and decide which “look” best honors my ancestor, John Plumley.

I walked away from Middletown today feeling proud—not just of my family’s past, but of the community I am now officially a part of. I can’t wait for the Saturday meeting!